Chapter 1: The Bitter Truth

Have you ever felt the sting of betrayal from those closest to you? After Ken left that fateful night, my thoughts scattered in every direction, leaving me in turmoil.

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Uyai's narrative #9: The devastating reality is that we are heading for a divorce. What can I say? "She is in, and I am out." Perhaps Ken has found love with Gold. Who can say for sure? I once believed we were deeply in love.

Ken was the second significant man in my life. The first was a high school sweetheart whom I left behind due to his substance abuse and poor academic performance. I was determined to succeed and couldn't let him jeopardize my future.

My mother often warned, “If your friend smokes, you will smoke.” Having witnessed the impact of addiction on her clients, her words resonated with me. This wisdom has remained with me ever since.

In college, I remained single until I met Ken, an ambitious eighteen-year-old entrepreneur, at a bookstore. We connected immediately. Did Ken love me? Did I love him? Perhaps he’s now in love with Gold. Who knows?

When we met, Ken was a virgin, and I was a year older. We were both juniors in college when we tied the knot after six years of dating. Ken quickly became adept at loving and supporting his family, showing kindness to both our mothers, who have since become friends and travel companions.

Our relationship garnered admiration from friends and family. Yet, I learned that “all that glitters is not gold.”

Never envy others; their lives may conceal struggles you cannot see.

I repeated to myself, “All that glitters is not gold,” as a reminder.

Suddenly, a knock at the door disrupted my thoughts. It was my mother-in-law, who entered and embraced me tightly. "You haven’t done anything wrong; Ken has wronged you. I’m here for you," she said with concern.

I chose to trust her words, despite my doubts regarding her knowledge of her grandson, Kingzy.

She revealed, “Ken called to say he’s leaving and wants a divorce. I told him, ‘You can work things out with Uyai.’ Then he shared he has a child with Gold. Their son.”

I gasped, overwhelmed. “What? Like father, like son. Ken has always been reckless. I can't believe this. Thank goodness for the UPS driver who keeps me grounded,” she exclaimed.

My heart raced: “What!”

The pain was unbearable.

We all harbor hidden truths, and women often excel at crafting façades, concealing imperfections in their relationships.

Moreover, our family's secrets can burden us daily, often fueling our emotional struggles.

Hiding the truth rarely leads to resolution; only honesty can foster healing and help us break free from toxic patterns.

Be vigilant.

Uyai's story #10 will unfold here. Questions to consider: Did the betrayals in Shakespeare's works truly happen? Have you ever faced betrayal from a colleague? Have you ever felt poisoned by a family member?

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