Embracing Mortality: The Flaws of the Longevity Obsession
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Chapter 1: The Blue Zones Phenomenon
A friend from the Post-Ego group in Duluth suggested I check out "The Blue Zones Challenge," a fascinating exploration of the diets and lifestyles of centenarians. The book highlights five regions—Okinawa, Ikaria, Sardinia, the Nicoya Peninsula in Costa Rica, and Loma Linda, California—where an impressive number of people reach the age of one hundred.
The main takeaway is simple: prioritize beans and greens in your diet, engage in natural physical activities like walking, and nurture a strong sense of community and purpose. I've embraced this lifestyle and feel fantastic.
Yet, there's a troubling aspect of this "longevity obsession" that I can't shake off. While I support a healthy lifestyle, the underlying assumption that we can somehow prevent death is deeply unsettling.
Section 1.1: The Illusion of Control
Life is inherently challenging. None of us chose to be born into this world, where we were led to believe in a meritocracy that rewards hard work and honesty. However, this notion often proves false, as many dishonest individuals seem to thrive in our society.
What’s worse, we are conditioned to think that our deaths are somehow our own fault. When we hear of someone passing away from a heart attack, we instinctively ask, “Did they smoke? Were they overweight?” If it’s due to COVID, we question their vaccination status.
This tendency to blame the deceased reflects a disturbing aspect of our ego-driven society—what happened to respecting the dead? The belief that death is a personal failing stems from the Horatio Alger myth, where the ultimate failure is death itself.
Subsection 1.1.1: The Viking Perspective
Drawing from my recent viewing of the "Vikings" series, it became clear that the Vikings faced death without fear, believing it was predetermined by the gods. Similarly, many religions, including Christianity, convey that God decides when we depart this world. Eastern philosophies often attribute life's events to karma, emphasizing a sense of limited agency regarding life and death.
This perspective alleviates some of the guilt associated with our mortality. Death is daunting enough without the added burden of believing it could have been avoided with "better choices."
Section 1.2: The Guilt of Longevity
While it's true that adopting a healthier lifestyle can extend our years—people in Blue Zones live about 10-20% longer—it doesn’t change the inevitability of death.
Seeing grandchildren grow is a beautiful thing, but what if those extra years are filled with guilt about our choices? True fulfillment comes from living authentically rather than obsessing over longevity.