Exploring Privilege and Inequality

Why do some individuals display unreasonable privilege? The shifting definitions of fairness and social norms throughout time contribute to this phenomenon. Observing these differences may lead us to question whether we begin with the assumption of equality or inequality and how our perceptions evolve based on experiences.

The most straightforward survival instinct often is "we are superior," a mindset observable across all demographics—race, gender, or nationality. While philosophical and religious differences may exist, they often represent choices reflective of one's worldview.

Personally, I believe we should awaken our instinct for survival while taking full responsibility for ourselves, just as nature intended. Simultaneously, we must embrace connection and community to ensure mutual protection. The struggle between the desire to survive as individuals and the need to connect as a group is a significant source of conflict across various divides—personal, racial, and political.

In this video, We Fling Turds and Ruin Everything in Long Drop!, we explore how our fears manifest in destructive behaviors, illustrating the need for empathy and understanding in overcoming societal divides.

Confronting Fear and Separation

Throughout my life, I have been open to discussing racism—even with those who hold prejudiced views. I perceive them as individuals caught in illusions of separation and fear, rather than as inherently evil. Similarly, I wish to address the challenges faced by the Involuntarily Celibate community, recognizing their struggles as stemming from fear and a lack of connection rather than malice.

These two drives—survival and connection—are intricately linked. I have found that understanding violence as a manifestation of anger, which in turn is rooted in fear, helps me empathize with those who have caused me harm. It is vital to remember that human beings often resort to "othering" to justify their actions, leading to tragic outcomes, such as the extinction of certain species once they encountered Homo sapiens.

In alignment with Richard Dawkins' The Selfish Gene, I assert that the historical competition between genders has often prioritized reproduction, even at the expense of individual well-being.

Seeking a Path Forward

I am not asking you to abandon your beliefs; rather, I urge you to consider, "What if this perspective is accurate? Does it provide clarity regarding historical and current events and suggest a more compassionate future?"

This inquiry can act as a valuable tool for personal growth. Observing our historical trajectory, especially the significant shifts of the late 20th century, we see the potential for change without assigning guilt or blame.

The Persuasion Framework is a concept worth revisiting. It emphasizes the need to build rapport, disrupt negative patterns, and connect desired behaviors with higher purposes. This approach has been employed effectively by influential figures like MLK and Gandhi, whose legacies endure for their profound wisdom.

In the 21st century, we find ourselves in a unique position to transcend the survival instincts that previously governed us. Our ancestors acted out of necessity, and many outdated beliefs can now be reevaluated. Each of us—regardless of background—has the right to awaken from the survival trance and ask fundamental questions about identity and truth.

We are interconnected, and the quest for understanding the essence of our shared humanity is paramount. Acknowledging that adversaries are often reflections of ourselves can pave the way for healing. The painful implications of equality can be eye-opening, and resolving these dualities may expose uncomfortable truths.

In the video Yes, That's A Turd In His Hand - The Poop Killer, we confront the harsh realities of societal division and the need for empathy in our interactions.

Building a Kinder Society

While it may feel safer to remain within tribal divisions, progress necessitates transcending these boundaries. My conviction remains steadfast: we are all seeking love, and understanding that anger is often rooted in fear is essential for personal accountability and societal harmony.

Despite its flaws, human society has the potential for greater kindness. However, this requires a collective effort to recognize our interconnectedness, cease the blame game, and collaborate with those who prioritize love over division.

To achieve this vision, we need awakened, aware, and autonomous individuals. Those who continue to engage in destructive behaviors will reap their consequences but will not contribute to building a better society.

My commitment is clear: to foster a community of one million conscious, responsible individuals. I believe that together, we can effect meaningful change. Anyone—regardless of race or gender—who shares this vision is welcome to join me on this journey.

Namaste

Steve

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